Why do women mess up their lives by staying with men who emotionally or physically batter them? Many woman’s lives are destroyed by believing in fairy tales.
Many woman stays with men who beats them black and blue. Some stay in a relationship even if their partner always put them down and puncture their self-esteem. Despite this they still stay with them. Sadly, such women are often in love with the idea of being in love. They’re love addicts for whom life without a man is empty and without purpose. So for these women, any man is better rather than having no man. These women may have college degrees, thriving businesses and streamlined bodies, but it is amazing how many intelligent women make really foolish choices when selecting a mate. So why do bright women often land up with men who are selfish, alcoholics, womanizers, liars, abusers and plain pain in the butt?
Some experts believe that these women may not be stupid but they certainly act stupid when it comes to male-female relationship. Experts also believe that more than any man, the biggest villain is the women’s own self-defeating behavior. These girls grew up believing avidly in romantic love. Unlike boys, who set themselves goal, girls learn to be passive and submissive, waiting for a man to fix their lives for them. Many girls brought up with the ultimate goal of love and marriage, never prepare for anything else. They ardently believe that all that is needed is a man to fill the void in their lives, and make them whole. From the protective daddy of childhood, it’s straight to a man who will take care of her. Find out if you and your love interest or partner are soul mates, best friends, or a recipe for disaster. But no fear – even opposites can attract.
When you’re in this situation remember that there are laws that can protect you from your abusers. Violence especially against women chooses no time or place. Cases of violence against women has greatly increased especially during the lockdowns.
All women should know that they are protected by law from these kinds of abuses. They are protected both under federal and state laws. The victims may file a lawsuit for assault and battery and put those who did this to them behind bars.
It is far better to cultivate your own self-esteem, believe in a goal and follow it with tenacity. When you have a cause you truly believe in, you will have no time to sit and mope about a man’s actions. With courage and confidence in your own abilities comes the strength to hold pout the best, and not settle for losers. It is this low-self-esteem which gets women caught in the love trap. Women close their eyes to all sorts of obnoxious behavior.
